So the situtation is I have been friends with this guy for about two years and only just recently realized he’s an introvert. At first I thought he was just shy and awkward but he can have really genuine conversations with brand new people and really enjoys hosting people. That said, he often likes to be by himself, is totally content to pursue his hobbies/work of photography and painting alone, and discerning his thoughts or feelings is really hard unless he chooses to share them. So during our friendship I got confused on signals if he was into me and I’m not sure if his interest waned as he started pursuing a mutual friend of ours a few months ago. However that didn’t last very long as they both agreed they were better as friends.
I guess my question is – how after this do I tell if he sees me more than a friend/attracted to me. I’m definintely an extrovert but I also recharge being by myself. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has this type of situtation. I see him about 2x a week through church events so it’s usually in larger groups and getting alone together is not so easy all the time. But yes we are pretty good friends just I don’t want to text him or email him to scare off our friendship. Any ideas?
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