I used to be extremely introverted but then I went to boarding school. I am doing much better socially, but I count on structure too much and can’t create my own social opportunities. I have plenty of social opportunities during the week already, but on the weekends it’s really hard and I have no idea what to do and I get so depressed. I’ve signed up for events, but if none of my friends are going everyone goes off in their own groups and I’m stuck by myself. Everyone usually stays on campus, so I can’t really make plans to go with someone. And since everyone else is socializing, they’re out of their rooms and I don’t know where they are. And since people are around each other 24/7, no one makes plans to just hang out days before hand. I would really appreciate some detailed advice. I’d appreciate anything.
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