Comments on: Of course I don’t want to go, but an ask would be nice! http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited Fri, 18 May 2012 00:44:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Northern Guy http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-9123 Northern Guy Fri, 18 May 2012 00:44:55 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-9123 I like it when I am not asked. It's so much easier that way. I like it when I am not asked. It’s so much easier that way.

]]> By: Chwenny http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-8975 Chwenny Mon, 14 May 2012 10:50:33 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-8975 Hi Angela, I so relate to you! My husband is a social butterfly who's very popular at parties, whereas I just look at the crowd and want to leave the minute we show up! My idea of a lovely Friday night is the two of us curled up at home with our laptops, our cat, and some snacks. I'm often amazed at how extreme extroverts even get along with each other sometimes. When there's more than one at a table, it really is like an attention contest with everyone talking over each other, all fighting to stay in the spotlight. It's exhausting to witness and sometimes I feel drained just by watching! Don't you feel sorry for the poor things though, in a way? Their egos need constant attention, and life becomes a battle for it. Introverts, on the other hand, get to savour peace from all that in bliss... Love Introvert Zone, btw! So glad I discovered it :) Hi Angela,

I so relate to you! My husband is a social butterfly who’s very popular at parties, whereas I just look at the crowd and want to leave the minute we show up! My idea of a lovely Friday night is the two of us curled up at home with our laptops, our cat, and some snacks.

I’m often amazed at how extreme extroverts even get along with each other sometimes. When there’s more than one at a table, it really is like an attention contest with everyone talking over each other, all fighting to stay in the spotlight. It’s exhausting to witness and sometimes I feel drained just by watching!

Don’t you feel sorry for the poor things though, in a way? Their egos need constant attention, and life becomes a battle for it. Introverts, on the other hand, get to savour peace from all that in bliss…

Love Introvert Zone, btw! So glad I discovered it :)

]]> By: Jessica http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-7506 Jessica Tue, 13 Mar 2012 18:58:59 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-7506 Awesome. I'm glad I'm not alone. You all sound just like me! Awesome. I’m glad I’m not alone. You all sound just like me!

]]> By: Mac@Moving Across Country http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-6263 Mac@Moving Across Country Sat, 03 Dec 2011 22:26:11 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-6263 You should definitely not let the world dictate to you how you should live your life. We all have feelings of loneliness at times. We should reflect on all of the things we have and enjoy and know that we are blessed to be alive. You should definitely not let the world dictate to you how you should live your life. We all have feelings of loneliness at times. We should reflect on all of the things we have and enjoy and know that we are blessed to be alive.
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]]> By: Jenny@CPAP Machine http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-6113 Jenny@CPAP Machine Thu, 17 Nov 2011 01:37:27 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-6113 Not everyone can turn up at every party all the time like a machine. Even extroverts want time for themselves. It is up to us to balance our own social life and own times. Being alone all the time is definitely not healthy, because humans are naturally social animals. Not everyone can turn up at every party all the time like a machine. Even extroverts want time for themselves. It is up to us to balance our own social life and own times. Being alone all the time is definitely not healthy, because humans are naturally social animals.

]]> By: Linh Phuong http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-6000 Linh Phuong Sun, 06 Nov 2011 00:59:33 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-6000 Linh Phuong: I can't believe how much similarity I find in here, in this Introvert Zone, in this story. It's nice knowing that we are understood :). Yesterday, I had a great event to go for, in the afternoon. But then, in the morning, when I got back home after a tiring class, I just wanted to take nap for a while, then when I woke up, I thought: Should I be going to the event? I knew it would be VERY useful for me, I just....can't explain how I feel seeing too many people trying to exposing themselves in front of the employer (actually it was some kinda career event). But finally, I went to the event anyway, and have never regretted about it. But the thing is, I just "sneaked in", and even don't bother about making a fuss for people to notice me. The event was really great, I did interact with quite a number of people, but just not tried to be the center of something (actually I know I'm not comfortable with it). I totally understand how you relieved you felt when it was just You and Your cat, because I did feel the same when it was just me in the parking lot. I somehow felt guilty about it, I asked myself whether I was That Forgettable so that there were no hands shakes with so many people after the event, or there were no exciting people talking to me. But then, I wondered if I truly felt fine having exciting people in front of me, or I would just start starring on the floor or somewhere else instead of their faces. Again, that's good knowing that there are people-like you- feeling the same. I've always been afraid of sharing it to others, I did try many times, but it only works for a few people, a very few people (including my Very best Friend forever). I'm scared of weird looks of people to whom I'm talking about that, but as I found this zone, it would be completely Fine :). Thank you for sharing this story. Linh Phuong: I can’t believe how much similarity I find in here, in this Introvert Zone, in this story. It’s nice knowing that we are understood :) .
Yesterday, I had a great event to go for, in the afternoon. But then, in the morning, when I got back home after a tiring class, I just wanted to take nap for a while, then when I woke up, I thought: Should I be going to the event? I knew it would be VERY useful for me, I just….can’t explain how I feel seeing too many people trying to exposing themselves in front of the employer (actually it was some kinda career event). But finally, I went to the event anyway, and have never regretted about it. But the thing is, I just “sneaked in”, and even don’t bother about making a fuss for people to notice me. The event was really great, I did interact with quite a number of people, but just not tried to be the center of something (actually I know I’m not comfortable with it). I totally understand how you relieved you felt when it was just You and Your cat, because I did feel the same when it was just me in the parking lot. I somehow felt guilty about it, I asked myself whether I was That Forgettable so that there were no hands shakes with so many people after the event, or there were no exciting people talking to me. But then, I wondered if I truly felt fine having exciting people in front of me, or I would just start starring on the floor or somewhere else instead of their faces.
Again, that’s good knowing that there are people-like you- feeling the same. I’ve always been afraid of sharing it to others, I did try many times, but it only works for a few people, a very few people (including my Very best Friend forever). I’m scared of weird looks of people to whom I’m talking about that, but as I found this zone, it would be completely Fine :) . Thank you for sharing this story.

]]> By: Ryan http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-5906 Ryan Sat, 29 Oct 2011 00:19:44 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-5906 This site is fantastic! It's really good to know that there are other people out there who have almost the exact same feelings as me in situations like this. I love being an introvert, but it can be quite difficult when stuff like this turns up. It doesn't even spark depression, it's almost like a sense of frustration when I don't get invited to a party, even though I know I would absolutely hate being there. This site is fantastic! It’s really good to know that there are other people out there who have almost the exact same feelings as me in situations like this. I love being an introvert, but it can be quite difficult when stuff like this turns up. It doesn’t even spark depression, it’s almost like a sense of frustration when I don’t get invited to a party, even though I know I would absolutely hate being there.

]]> By: Nate@TRX Coupon Code http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-4740 Nate@TRX Coupon Code Thu, 08 Sep 2011 22:11:14 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-4740 This is extremely informational for me. I have a real introvert in my family and I am going to show them this site. Its good to know there are solutions. This is extremely informational for me. I have a real introvert in my family and I am going to show them this site. Its good to know there are solutions.
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]]> By: Nina C. http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-3979 Nina C. Sun, 14 Aug 2011 06:27:22 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-3979 All this time I believed to be this weird antisocial person !! It sucks that society is more "Extrovert friendly". I actually read in forbes.com that Introverts make better leaders :D that made me happy. All this time I believed to be this weird antisocial person !! It sucks that society is more “Extrovert friendly”. I actually read in forbes.com that Introverts make better leaders :D that made me happy.

]]> By: Robert Heck http://introvertzone.com/introvert-want-to-be-invited/comment-page-1#comment-3925 Robert Heck Thu, 11 Aug 2011 15:16:40 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=628#comment-3925 Lol...it's all about the control...! Lol…it’s all about the control…!

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