Comments on: Introvert friends: the perfect fit http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:14:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: OnkelSeosErbe http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-5902 OnkelSeosErbe Fri, 28 Oct 2011 14:12:04 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-5902 Useful information. Lucky me I found your website by chance, and I'm shocked why this coincidence did not took place in advance! I bookmarked it. Useful information. Lucky me I found your website by chance, and I’m shocked why this coincidence did not took place in advance! I bookmarked it.
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]]> By: Lucy http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-3856 Lucy Sat, 06 Aug 2011 21:02:14 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-3856 I'm an INTJ - the scientist, and I think most people think I'm this cold emotionless person. Most of the friends I have got are from when I was younger, and more outgoing and friendly. I've been finding it really hard to keep these friends, as the majority of them are extroverts, so they demand socialising and don't seem to realise that some people don't really like that. I feel like if I do one thing with them, they want me to do more and more and more, so what starts out as a quiet walk with the two of you, ends up to be a week long shopping sleepover extravaganza with twenty other people (okay maybe that's a bit of an exaggeration but you get my point). I like to know and plan out what is going to happen so when I'm faced with something as spontaneous as that, my mind fills with dread right until the last minute, when I'm forced to come up wih an excuse and cancel. They are getting bored of all the excuses now and I fear I will have no friends left. It seems what I need is somebody similar to my INTJ type, or at least a fellow introvert who understands me. I’m an INTJ – the scientist, and I think most people think I’m this cold emotionless person. Most of the friends I have got are from when I was younger, and more outgoing and friendly. I’ve been finding it really hard to keep these friends, as the majority of them are extroverts, so they demand socialising and don’t seem to realise that some people don’t really like that. I feel like if I do one thing with them, they want me to do more and more and more, so what starts out as a quiet walk with the two of you, ends up to be a week long shopping sleepover extravaganza with twenty other people (okay maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration but you get my point). I like to know and plan out what is going to happen so when I’m faced with something as spontaneous as that, my mind fills with dread right until the last minute, when I’m forced to come up wih an excuse and cancel. They are getting bored of all the excuses now and I fear I will have no friends left. It seems what I need is somebody similar to my INTJ type, or at least a fellow introvert who understands me.

]]> By: ku http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-2484 ku Mon, 13 Sep 2010 05:43:25 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-2484 I mostly have an introverted nature and sometimes an extroverted. I think im an ambivert I mostly have an introverted nature and sometimes an extroverted. I think im an ambivert

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-2228 IntrovertZone Sat, 07 Aug 2010 13:37:14 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-2228 We certainly understand when our introvert friend says they don't want to do something tonight - because they did something last night. :) We certainly understand when our introvert friend says they don’t want to do something tonight – because they did something last night. :)

]]> By: JNET http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-2215 JNET Fri, 06 Aug 2010 09:14:41 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-2215 A good friend protects an introverts solitude :) A good friend protects an introverts solitude :)
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]]> By: The Shytrovert http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-1556 The Shytrovert Fri, 18 Jun 2010 19:42:35 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-1556 Absolutely! I hate the small talking, but I actually like parties IF a fun activity is at the center of it. At New Year's my sweetie and I had some friends over and we did a game night. We played balderdash and I had so much fun doing that. Cocktail parties with strangers and just sitting around small talking is like hell for me. I don't like answering the same lame questions over and over, or the discomfort of fumbling for topics with people I don't know and will likely never see again or for a long, long time. It seems like such a forced and excruciating way to get to know someone. When you're doing something together conversation comes organically and I prefer that. So much easier for someone like me who is both shy and introverted. http://theshytrovert.blogspot.com/2010/04/i-got-your-personality-right-here.html Absolutely! I hate the small talking, but I actually like parties IF a fun activity is at the center of it. At New Year’s my sweetie and I had some friends over and we did a game night. We played balderdash and I had so much fun doing that.

Cocktail parties with strangers and just sitting around small talking is like hell for me. I don’t like answering the same lame questions over and over, or the discomfort of fumbling for topics with people I don’t know and will likely never see again or for a long, long time. It seems like such a forced and excruciating way to get to know someone.

When you’re doing something together conversation comes organically and I prefer that. So much easier for someone like me who is both shy and introverted.
http://theshytrovert.blogspot.com/2010/04/i-got-your-personality-right-here.html

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-1549 IntrovertZone Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:59:29 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-1549 Absolutely nothing wrong at all! :D Absolutely nothing wrong at all! :D

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-1548 IntrovertZone Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:59:07 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-1548 Amen. Amen.

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-1547 IntrovertZone Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:58:58 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-1547 True. It pulls us out into the world a little bit and shows us things we'd otherwise never experience! True. It pulls us out into the world a little bit and shows us things we’d otherwise never experience!

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/introvert-friends-the-perfect-fit/comment-page-1#comment-1546 IntrovertZone Thu, 17 Jun 2010 23:58:20 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=713#comment-1546 It really would be nice! I hope you find the perfect introvert for you! It really would be nice! I hope you find the perfect introvert for you!

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