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		<title>By: Udegbunam Chukwudi</title>
		<link>http://introvertzone.com/how-to-kill-interruptions-and-prevent-new-ones-from-hatching/comment-page-1#comment-1048</link>
		<dc:creator>Udegbunam Chukwudi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 04:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;B&gt;The victim&lt;/B&gt; LMAO. My new phone (Samsung GT C3212 Dual SIM) has dat function. Absent mindedly click on a button four times and it begins to ring on it&#039;s own. It&#039;s called the Fake call function ;)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>The victim</b> LMAO. My new phone (Samsung GT C3212 Dual SIM) has dat function. Absent mindedly click on a button four times and it begins to ring on it&#8217;s own. It&#8217;s called the Fake call function <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: Victor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 00:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m glad I&#039;m not the only one who thinks this way. I also work in an IT environment where I develop internal web applications for the company&#039;s needs. I absolutely hate it when I get interrupted! I lose my train of thought and I feel it actually takes me a few steps backwards. 

And for me, the end of the day is actually considered an interruption! Whenever possible, I like to finish the current task. If I decide to start and pick up where I left off the next morning, I find myself (again) trying to remember what I was doing. I&#039;ve been suggested by others to write down where I left off, but it simply isn&#039;t the same!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m not the only one who thinks this way. I also work in an IT environment where I develop internal web applications for the company&#8217;s needs. I absolutely hate it when I get interrupted! I lose my train of thought and I feel it actually takes me a few steps backwards. </p>
<p>And for me, the end of the day is actually considered an interruption! Whenever possible, I like to finish the current task. If I decide to start and pick up where I left off the next morning, I find myself (again) trying to remember what I was doing. I&#8217;ve been suggested by others to write down where I left off, but it simply isn&#8217;t the same!<br />
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 00:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks!  :)  

Very nice!  I wish my phone had an external button so I could do that.  In fact, I used to work in an office where the guys and I had an agreement - when Talking Guy came by and overstayed his welcome, one of us would call the &quot;victim&quot; on his/her cell phone so Talking Guy would move on.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks!  <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>Very nice!  I wish my phone had an external button so I could do that.  In fact, I used to work in an office where the guys and I had an agreement &#8211; when Talking Guy came by and overstayed his welcome, one of us would call the &#8220;victim&#8221; on his/her cell phone so Talking Guy would move on.<br />
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		<title>By: Udegbunam Chukwudi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Udegbunam Chukwudi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing blog. It&#039;s as though the story of life is being laid out here for everyone to see. 
lol. 

My own way of getting people off my back is to casually play my phone&#039;s ring tome without them noticing. The phone seems to ring, I answer it, act surprised and then 
excuse myself to go complete the conversation in a private place.

Unfortunately some buggers don&#039;t get the message and would even escort you to the loo to take a piss so they can continue rambling. Aaargh!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing blog. It&#8217;s as though the story of life is being laid out here for everyone to see.<br />
lol. </p>
<p>My own way of getting people off my back is to casually play my phone&#8217;s ring tome without them noticing. The phone seems to ring, I answer it, act surprised and then<br />
excuse myself to go complete the conversation in a private place.</p>
<p>Unfortunately some buggers don&#8217;t get the message and would even escort you to the loo to take a piss so they can continue rambling. Aaargh!<br />
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		<title>By: Vent</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:38:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find it quite difficult to handle those who have nothing to do and constantly interrupt one&#039;s work day.  However, I smile and say:  I am busy right now, would you mind if we get together a little later or discuss this off line after office hours?  9 times out of 10 it works well with others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find it quite difficult to handle those who have nothing to do and constantly interrupt one&#8217;s work day.  However, I smile and say:  I am busy right now, would you mind if we get together a little later or discuss this off line after office hours?  9 times out of 10 it works well with others.</p>
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		<title>By: Ventrilo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ventrilo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:31:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is important to be confident and yet polite when asking others not to interrupt us.  In particular if we work in a fast paced or time sensitive environment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is important to be confident and yet polite when asking others not to interrupt us.  In particular if we work in a fast paced or time sensitive environment.</p>
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		<title>By: cb</title>
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		<dc:creator>cb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 01:04:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s right - we have to be conscious of protecting our time - not let it dribble away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s right &#8211; we have to be conscious of protecting our time &#8211; not let it dribble away.</p>
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		<title>By: gochi juice</title>
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		<dc:creator>gochi juice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 10:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is true. Well, we really can&#039;t totally wipe out interruptions at work, in school, or anywhere. They are like almost everywhere. But we can avoid them and not make them the reason for us not to finish our task. Let&#039;s just focus on the more important things that and not let any interruption overtake us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is true. Well, we really can&#8217;t totally wipe out interruptions at work, in school, or anywhere. They are like almost everywhere. But we can avoid them and not make them the reason for us not to finish our task. Let&#8217;s just focus on the more important things that and not let any interruption overtake us.</p>
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:41:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Uttoran - exactly.  It&#039;s hard enough to get all of our work done without people tripping us up and wasting our time.   Thanks for your comment - and please come back to Introvert Zone soon!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Uttoran &#8211; exactly.  It&#8217;s hard enough to get all of our work done without people tripping us up and wasting our time.   Thanks for your comment &#8211; and please come back to Introvert Zone soon!</p>
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		<title>By: Uttoran Sen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Uttoran Sen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 07:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, on a busy day with loads of work and pending work of the last few days to complete, the last thing one would really need is an annoying interruption. will put some of your ideas into work when i get another of those interruptions. thanks,
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, on a busy day with loads of work and pending work of the last few days to complete, the last thing one would really need is an annoying interruption. will put some of your ideas into work when i get another of those interruptions. thanks,<br />
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		<title>By: Sire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 02:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, and what was really annoying about that guy was that he was sooooo repetitive, in that he would recount something over an over again. Man, I don&#039;t know how his wife puts up with him.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, and what was really annoying about that guy was that he was sooooo repetitive, in that he would recount something over an over again. Man, I don&#8217;t know how his wife puts up with him.<br />
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 01:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL that guy had absolutely no sensitivity about him, did he!   I also hate when people can&#039;t read subtle cues that we&#039;re ready to end a conversation.   Little things like walking away and slamming the car door!  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL that guy had absolutely no sensitivity about him, did he!   I also hate when people can&#8217;t read subtle cues that we&#8217;re ready to end a conversation.   Little things like walking away and slamming the car door!  <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 08:06:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man, I hate interruptions, and I hate those people that stretch out a conversation, even when you make it obvious that you&#039;re done with it. I once had a guy follow me all the way to the car, and was still talking even when I closed the door.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, I hate interruptions, and I hate those people that stretch out a conversation, even when you make it obvious that you&#8217;re done with it. I once had a guy follow me all the way to the car, and was still talking even when I closed the door.<br />
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have had that happen pretty often in my previous job!  People would walk all through the cube farm to ask, &quot;Did you get my email?&quot;  (Um, I&#039;m sure I did...)   or to inform me that they had sent one.  Argh indeed!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have had that happen pretty often in my previous job!  People would walk all through the cube farm to ask, &#8220;Did you get my email?&#8221;  (Um, I&#8217;m sure I did&#8230;)   or to inform me that they had sent one.  Argh indeed!  <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:)   

Klaus, sounds like you&#039;ve found something that works.   You let your coworkers know when you REALLY need to be left alone, and they are respecting that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />    </p>
<p>Klaus, sounds like you&#8217;ve found something that works.   You let your coworkers know when you REALLY need to be left alone, and they are respecting that.</p>
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Hermit Loner!  And you&#039;re absolutely right - your right to think and work has to be just as (well, really MORE) important as someone else&#039;s right to just come interrupt you because he wants to talk!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Hermit Loner!  And you&#8217;re absolutely right &#8211; your right to think and work has to be just as (well, really MORE) important as someone else&#8217;s right to just come interrupt you because he wants to talk!</p>
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		<title>By: Bella</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about when someone comes to interrupt you to tell you they&#039;ve just sent you an email?  Argh!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about when someone comes to interrupt you to tell you they&#8217;ve just sent you an email?  Argh!</p>
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		<title>By: Klaus @ TechPatio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Klaus @ TechPatio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:11:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good one with the guest char sending the wrong message - I like it :D

I found that wearing headphones (and listening to music of course) would also decrease interruptions, but then people found out that I wore them all the time and started interrupting me anyway. So now I only put them on if really necessary and people seem to respect it more often.

And also the thing about waiting a few seconds to reply or even look up might also give the other guy an indication that he actually disturbed you and he might think twice before doing it again
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good one with the guest char sending the wrong message &#8211; I like it <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I found that wearing headphones (and listening to music of course) would also decrease interruptions, but then people found out that I wore them all the time and started interrupting me anyway. So now I only put them on if really necessary and people seem to respect it more often.</p>
<p>And also the thing about waiting a few seconds to reply or even look up might also give the other guy an indication that he actually disturbed you and he might think twice before doing it again<br />
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		<description>Great post, thank you for the helpful ideas! Even if I &quot;seriously have nothing to do,&quot; I still hate interruptions, because I&#039;m usually very content to be thinking or just zoning. But if I&#039;m trying to get work done, I REALLY hate interruptions. Work-related interruptions really can&#039;t be avoided, but I think we have every right to put a stop to non-work-related ones. 

I have never understood why my need to concentrate and focus on my work has to be less important than some bored extrovert&#039;s desire to talk to me. I&#039;ve always thought I had to be receptive to all interruptions, as a &quot;nice person,&quot; but I&#039;m finally realizing that the interrupters aren&#039;t being &quot;nice people&quot; when they refuse to respect what I&#039;m trying to do, so I&#039;m becoming a lot more assertive about saying, basically, &quot;Please go away.&quot;  

I just rearranged my cubicle with a higher wall and I&#039;ve positioned my main monitor so that my back is to the &#039;door&#039; - it&#039;s much less open and inviting than it was and I think it&#039;s going to cut down on the unwanted &quot;cubicle visits&quot; considerably.  

Not showing impatience is important for several reasons, one of which, in my environment, is that if you show you&#039;re irritated or impatient, people will simply escalate their efforts to &quot;get your goat.&quot;  It&#039;s childish and ridiculous but that&#039;s what happens. They seem to think it&#039;s cute and funny when I get ticked off at the constant socializing. Nobody takes me seriously when I try to tell them that really, I have work to do and they need to take their conversation somewhere else.  Management is no help, I learned that a long time ago. It&#039;s MY problem to solve.  

Even if I&#039;m really busy, I will usually accommodate a WORK related interruption, especially if it&#039;s presented with just a little respect and consideration, ie. &quot;Excuse me, I know you&#039;re busy, but I really need your help for just a minute.&quot; Fine. I understand that. Likewise, I expect to be understood if now and then my response has to be &quot;I&#039;m really sorry but I can&#039;t help you right now. I&#039;ll be free in about a half hour, or if you really need this now, perhaps you could ask Greg.&quot; It&#039;s got to go both ways. I&#039;ve reached a point where I no longer feel the need to be &quot;nice&quot; to the rude.  If people want my help at work they have GOT to start showing me a little more respect, or they are going to find that I&#039;ve mysteriously &quot;forgotten&quot; just about everything I know, and have become useless as a source of assistance!!  :-)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, thank you for the helpful ideas! Even if I &#8220;seriously have nothing to do,&#8221; I still hate interruptions, because I&#8217;m usually very content to be thinking or just zoning. But if I&#8217;m trying to get work done, I REALLY hate interruptions. Work-related interruptions really can&#8217;t be avoided, but I think we have every right to put a stop to non-work-related ones. </p>
<p>I have never understood why my need to concentrate and focus on my work has to be less important than some bored extrovert&#8217;s desire to talk to me. I&#8217;ve always thought I had to be receptive to all interruptions, as a &#8220;nice person,&#8221; but I&#8217;m finally realizing that the interrupters aren&#8217;t being &#8220;nice people&#8221; when they refuse to respect what I&#8217;m trying to do, so I&#8217;m becoming a lot more assertive about saying, basically, &#8220;Please go away.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I just rearranged my cubicle with a higher wall and I&#8217;ve positioned my main monitor so that my back is to the &#8216;door&#8217; &#8211; it&#8217;s much less open and inviting than it was and I think it&#8217;s going to cut down on the unwanted &#8220;cubicle visits&#8221; considerably.  </p>
<p>Not showing impatience is important for several reasons, one of which, in my environment, is that if you show you&#8217;re irritated or impatient, people will simply escalate their efforts to &#8220;get your goat.&#8221;  It&#8217;s childish and ridiculous but that&#8217;s what happens. They seem to think it&#8217;s cute and funny when I get ticked off at the constant socializing. Nobody takes me seriously when I try to tell them that really, I have work to do and they need to take their conversation somewhere else.  Management is no help, I learned that a long time ago. It&#8217;s MY problem to solve.  </p>
<p>Even if I&#8217;m really busy, I will usually accommodate a WORK related interruption, especially if it&#8217;s presented with just a little respect and consideration, ie. &#8220;Excuse me, I know you&#8217;re busy, but I really need your help for just a minute.&#8221; Fine. I understand that. Likewise, I expect to be understood if now and then my response has to be &#8220;I&#8217;m really sorry but I can&#8217;t help you right now. I&#8217;ll be free in about a half hour, or if you really need this now, perhaps you could ask Greg.&#8221; It&#8217;s got to go both ways. I&#8217;ve reached a point where I no longer feel the need to be &#8220;nice&#8221; to the rude.  If people want my help at work they have GOT to start showing me a little more respect, or they are going to find that I&#8217;ve mysteriously &#8220;forgotten&#8221; just about everything I know, and have become useless as a source of assistance!!  <img src='http://introvertzone.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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