This was submitted by someone who has been dating an introvert for 1 1/2 years and still hasn’t met his friends! He has friends and does things with them, so what is the problem? Do you think she’s not important to him? Or is he trying to keep his circles separate, so he doesn’t have his “worlds collide?”
I have been with my introvert boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. He only has a few friends but i have never met any of them. He doesnt typically make like like me the extrovert. I repsect and understand his introvert personality. I have given so much space, I have tried to suggest opportunities to plan a quiet dinner or a simple outing. None of it has worked. Now i feel like i am not that important. I feel like he is ashamed of me. We are so aware of our differences and we talk about them, But yet, nothing seems to change. He has gone on a cruise with his friends 6 months ago, 3 guys and one brought his wife, he plays golf with them once a month, he went to 2 concerts with a guy friend in the last year, he went to 2 baseball games with a friend but yet i have never met any one of the 5 close friends that he has.
I love him and is the sweetest most supportive man i know but this is so touchy for us. I need some answers from some male introverts in a relationship.
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