1 month ago, my introverted Girlfriend broke up with me. We were drawn to each other really fast and became a couple on the first date. At that time, neither of us knew we were an introvert and extrovert couple. Fast forward to a few months of dating, she decides to break up with me. She says she has been observing our relationship since it was unnaturally fast, and she felt I was not giving her enough space. She said that is was for the best as she didn’t want to get hurt in the long run. Basically, our relationship didn’t work out because I didn’t know how to communicate with her as an introvert back then.
It was only recently that I discovered about introverts and extroverts. I believe that I am labeled as an EsFJ while she is an IsFP. When we were dating I felt that she was always distant, and I thought that we needed more time together in order to stabilize our relationship, which only pushed her away more. Now that I know what I did wrong, I was hoping to start a fresh page with her. Yet she has not contacted me ever since, which I also understand as her needing this time to herself.
How can I convey these thoughts to her without pushing her further away or her thinking that we’re just not meant to be?
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