Comments on: Dating an introvert, the sneak attack approach http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:14:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Dating You http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-6682 Dating You Wed, 18 Jan 2012 17:56:51 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-6682 Really good dating guest post! Thanks! Really good dating guest post! Thanks!

]]> By: Neha agarwal @ dating tips for men http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-6656 Neha agarwal @ dating tips for men Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:34:05 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-6656 really interesting article.nick.and yes your is awesome too i just go through that really interesting article.nick.and yes your is awesome too i just go through that

]]> By: Dating an introvert, the sneak attack approach /  For the IntrovertiSHly inclined http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-5265 Dating an introvert, the sneak attack approach /  For the IntrovertiSHly inclined Sat, 01 Oct 2011 21:33:00 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-5265 [...] Dating an introvert may seem difficult, for an extrovert or an introvert. Maybe, just maybe…it’s getting them to go out on the date in the first place. Introverts, by definition, are not outgoing party people. So getting them out the door isn’t always easy, or is it? That all depends on your approach (this is where the big secret comes in).READ MORE [...] [...] Dating an introvert may seem difficult, for an extrovert or an introvert. Maybe, just maybe…it’s getting them to go out on the date in the first place. Introverts, by definition, are not outgoing party people. So getting them out the door isn’t always easy, or is it? That all depends on your approach (this is where the big secret comes in).READ MORE [...]

]]> By: MICHELLE http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-4902 MICHELLE Tue, 13 Sep 2011 15:59:40 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-4902 Is it ok to be the first person to call or text an introvert? I'm an combination of both but recently more of an extrovert. I don't want to scare this guy off he made the first intial request to exchange numbers and had called a couple of times. I'd like to get to know him better but not sure I should be the first to contact him or not? Is it ok to be the first person to call or text an introvert? I’m an combination of both but recently more of an extrovert. I don’t want to scare this guy off he made the first intial request to exchange numbers and had called a couple of times. I’d like to get to know him better but not sure I should be the first to contact him or not?

]]> By: rima@how to make him fall in love with you http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-4595 rima@how to make him fall in love with you Sat, 03 Sep 2011 10:04:35 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-4595 It is really a good article which one is written by You. I agree with You Because You give a tips for dating man which is vary useful and very very descriptive for dating a man..... It is really a good article which one is written by You. I agree with You Because You give a tips for dating man which is vary useful and very very descriptive for dating a man…..

]]> By: lindyloohoo http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-3743 lindyloohoo Sat, 23 Jul 2011 23:42:24 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-3743 I have to thank you Kayle, being an introvert myself, I was cruzing along your article, in total agreement and interally validating it, and came to the line with the " ??excitment??" in quotes. I have to tell you that I literally burt into an outpouring of jovial laughter as I find that line soooo completely true!! I am off to wash the stinging mascara from my eyes, and continue with your article. Again thank you for the chuckle and the good read :) I have to thank you Kayle, being an introvert myself, I was cruzing along your article, in total agreement and interally validating it, and came to the line with the
” ??excitment??” in quotes. I have to tell you that I literally burt into an outpouring of jovial laughter as I find that line soooo completely true!! I am off to wash the stinging mascara from my eyes, and continue with your article.

Again thank you for the chuckle and the good read :)

]]> By: Tamara http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-3602 Tamara Tue, 05 Jul 2011 10:40:29 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-3602 I'm dating a man who is slightly introverted, but more social than I am. Yesterday, on 4th of July, we went on a 30 mile organized bike ride. We had a great ride and then went back to my house, had lunch and I watched the Cubs game with him. Much to my dismay, he said he never watched a whole Cubs game on the tube before. I was trying to make him happy and feel comfortable.....only to find out that wasnt the case. We really didn't know what to do next and I could tell he wanted to leave. He is a golf addict and I could tell he wanted to swing those clubs. Being with me wasn't enough. I think he finds me a bit boring. I am more introverted than him........ Any suggestions? I’m dating a man who is slightly introverted, but more social than I am. Yesterday, on 4th of July, we went on a 30 mile organized bike ride. We had a great ride and then went back to my house, had lunch and I watched the Cubs game with him. Much to my dismay, he said he never watched a whole Cubs game on the tube before. I was trying to make him happy and feel comfortable…..only to find out that wasnt the case. We really didn’t know what to do next and I could tell he wanted to leave. He is a golf addict and I could tell he wanted to swing those clubs.

Being with me wasn’t enough. I think he finds me a bit boring. I am more introverted than him……..

Any suggestions?

]]> By: Kayle http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-2813 Kayle Mon, 29 Nov 2010 18:53:40 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-2813 Slowing down and getting to know someone by spending time with them (without the narrow focus) BEFORE you date them, when practical, seems obvious to me. I mean, how do you know that you really want to DATE someone if you don't know them, anyway?? But then, Extroverts might find the idea of a date fun in itself. Introverts like me DO NOT. I don't really feed off of the ??excitement?? of spending time with a stranger. (Strangers are NOT 'exciting' to me just by virtue of being new or attractive.) And I don't like going through the energy drain of explaining my life, at point-blank, to someone who (I) may not want to be there the next day. So if you *think* you like an introvert, think of it not so much as the "sneak attack" of tricking THEM into spending time with YOU, as what I would normally think of as just plain prudent, investigative behavior on your part, regardless of whatever attraction you might feel. Also, this way, you probably spend (or waste, lol) a lot less money and energy than doing things the "normal" way. Cart--->Horse--->Market. Jus sayin. Slowing down and getting to know someone by spending time with them (without the narrow focus) BEFORE you date them, when practical, seems obvious to me. I mean, how do you know that you really want to DATE someone if you don’t know them, anyway?? But then, Extroverts might find the idea of a date fun in itself. Introverts like me DO NOT. I don’t really feed off of the ??excitement?? of spending time with a stranger. (Strangers are NOT ‘exciting’ to me just by virtue of being new or attractive.) And I don’t like going through the energy drain of explaining my life, at point-blank, to someone who (I) may not want to be there the next day.
So if you *think* you like an introvert, think of it not so much as the “sneak attack” of tricking THEM into spending time with YOU, as what I would normally think of as just plain prudent, investigative behavior on your part, regardless of whatever attraction you might feel. Also, this way, you probably spend (or waste, lol) a lot less money and energy than doing things the “normal” way.
Cart—>Horse—>Market. Jus sayin.

]]> By: IntrovertZone http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-2725 IntrovertZone Wed, 27 Oct 2010 23:40:56 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-2725 Yes, I thought what a simple-sounding, yet ingenious way to really get to know someone and even start to date them when they hate small talk and may not enjoy the thought of what we usually think of as *dating*. Yes, I thought what a simple-sounding, yet ingenious way to really get to know someone and even start to date them when they hate small talk and may not enjoy the thought of what we usually think of as *dating*.

]]> By: Tony http://introvertzone.com/dating-an-introvert-the-sneak-attack-approach/comment-page-1#comment-2723 Tony Wed, 27 Oct 2010 19:49:27 +0000 http://introvertzone.com/?p=238#comment-2723 This is great advice. I like how you're almost tricking them (in a good way) to go on a date with you and before they now it, there might be some sparks flying. This is great advice. I like how you’re almost tricking them (in a good way) to go on a date with you and before they now it, there might be some sparks flying.

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